One night we chatted for hours after his wife went to bed, he fell asleep. I tried to wake him but to no avail. Logging off I worried all night that someone was going to read everything we had typed to each other. Couldn't talk in voice due to everyone in our households being asleep so typing was our only option. Finally after tossing and turning all night I did fall asleep.
Waking up the next morning .. he had told me that his family including his wife had read everything that we had said to each other. I wasn't very happy about it but as fate happened. It was a good thing for us. Dave had admitted his love for us and that we were more than friends as his wife suspected. From that moment on he no longer had to hide me on video or on text but from that moment on he was sure not to fall asleep again leaving our private moments to be read by others.